• Ashley Swain

He is a 4 year old boy not a man.

Breaking news.


I get annoyed when people see me hug CJ and say “You are spoiling him, he got to toughen up and be a man”.



I am his MOTHER, no matter what I do I could never raise him to be a “man”

I know nothing about being one.

That’s why he has a FATHER, GRANDFATHER, UNCLES, and MALE COUSINS and MALE mentors to step in.

1) He is a 4-year-old boy, not a man. Read that again.

2) Every chance I get I will hug, and feed him with words of affirmations and he will always feel and know he is loved.

3) I’m not raising my kid on the same trauma y’all thrived on just to appear like it was for the best and made y’all “stronger.” Meanwhile, you’re unforgiving, mean, and hostile and in need of THERAPY. 😐

You NEEDED a hug. You needed to be held safely. You needed to be loved.

4) Yall Momma didn’t hug y’all and it shows.


I’m interested in hear your view on this topic.

let me know.

Share comment and be safe out there.

- Ash 💕

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